What can be done? Part of the solution lies in a change in cultural attitudes. Over the past generation, middle-class men have learned that they need to help with child care, and have changed their behaviour. Working-class men need to catch up. Women have learned that they can be surgeons and physicists without losing their femininity(女性气质). Men need to understand that traditional manual jobs are not coming back, and that they can be nurses or hairdressers(美发师) without losing their masculinity(阳刚之气).